Just ask yourself, which type of parent you are now:-
a. Workoholic - prefer to work until late night and on the weekend. Prefer to spend time at work rather than spending time with family.
b. Standard & Selfish - They prefer to lavishly spending on the expensive clothes for themselves rather than spending money for education. They prefer to let their kids just stay at home without giving any homeschooling activities. All the time they only think & care about their pride, status, standard, brand and anything related.
If you are not fall under one of the above categories, congratulation to you be because you put your family to be on the top of others.
"Good look can fade, expensive dress can torn easily, but the knowledge you have will remain forever..."